I am currently fostering a litter of five-week-old kittens on top of my two senior cats, Ollie and Mabel. I have been doing this for three days and I am already feeling exhausted. Ollie is diabetic and Mabel has kidney issues, so they require very specific care routines. The kittens are constantly crying and need feeding every few hours. I live in a small house and the noise is becoming overwhelming. I am worried that I am not providing a good environment for the kittens or that I am neglecting my resident cats. How do you all manage to keep from burning out when fostering multiple animals?
preventing foster burnout
Joan, this is a really common feeling. I work at a vet clinic so I see a lot of fosters who feel like they are drowning. Have you looked at the pinned thread about burnout signs? It helps to recognize that feeling drained is normal, not a failure. Also, since you have the kittens, check out my thread on feeding schedules to see if you can stretch the gaps slightly as they get older. It helps to have a plan.
i foster too but keep it strict. my cat Luna is very vocal and gets stressed if other cats are around. i just keep the fosters in a separate room with the door closed. no interaction. saves me so much energy. you should try separating cats if you havent already. it stops the resident cats from getting anxious which saves you from having to manage two sets of stress.
Joan, I completely understand the overwhelm, especially with seniors like Ollie and Mabel. I found that setting up a dedicated 'foster zone' in one room really helped me. It keeps the mess contained and gives me a clear boundary. You might find this thread on small space fostering useful for ideas on how to make a small area work for multiple cats. It is about creating distinct spaces so the animals don't feel like they are competing for the same territory.
You guys are so smart with the separation tips! I always forget that. I just let Loki and Freya hang out with the fosters and it usually works out, but I guess that is because they are young and playful. For Joan, maybe you can look into local support? Sometimes having a friend who can just sit with the kittens for an hour so you can rest your eyes makes a huge difference. I know a few people in my area who do that for me when I have a busy week.
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